Family and In-laws
The family you did not choose.
- @faded_ink
Asalamalaikum, F Mai abroad mai rehtiu, apne shohar ke saath, humare ofcourse kharche toh hai, lekin mere shohar ab , double kaam karna shuru kare, kyuki, unke gharwale aaye din paise mangate rehte, unke or bhi bhai hai, jo kuch nai kamate, or na sochte kamane ki, khali mere shohar ke paise pe aish karre ... yaha mai humara family time sacrifice karriu, or unlog naa kadre hai intehai, mai selfish nai horiu, lekin!!! mere shohar apni biwi bacho ku ignore karke apne naa layak family members ku bharre ... Mai chahriu ye silsila ruk jana, beshak uno apne maa baap ku de sakte, haq hai unka, mai wo kabhi nai cheenugi. LEKIN, ye jo ghar baite bhai hai, jo bht kuch kar sakte magar iflasi baite rehte, aaye din ek bekaari ka business idea laake, mere shohar ku loot lete, mere shohar din mai or raat mai mehnat karre, mera family time sab side mai rakh ke, ye naa kadre bhaiyo ke liye ... Ye cheez mai unku batana chahriu, lekin mai yaha villian lagugi, kamini lagugi, meku ye baat unke aagey rakhna hai. Par kaise?. or unke bhai intehai zehreele hai, meku har waqt taane dete, itna tak nai sochte ki mera shohar hai jo har cheez karra.
- @night_wanderer
As salaamualaikum wa Rahmathullahi barkatahu... F I want to adopt a baby boy age 2-5 years legally after doing all the legal paper work who is from needy family for sawaab.. Anyone know anyone who is from poor parents ,orphans who need shelter, good respectable life and education kindly help me to find out jazakallah... Koi bhi aise family ko jaante ho aisa chote bacha jis ko need ho ache life ki pls boliye ap logon ko bhi sawaab milega...Aur jo log help nahi karsakte Islam me yah hai yeh nahi hai pls pls pls maat boliye kaise parwarish karna kya karna hai kya nahi its totally my call mein bhi momin hun Alhamdulillah... ap bina baat ke takleef de comments maat kijiye aur encourage nahi karsakte koi toh discourage bhi maat kijiye its an humble request to all .. Ap seriously help karsakte apka contact number dm ya comment box me likhaye.If any one know kindly dm or comment the details jazakallah hu khairan.
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Whisprin TeamIt is a good decision.
- @slow_burnout
I hope you all are well. I am 25y (F). I belong to a pathan family. I am the only child of my parents (separated). Main or meri amma nanyhal main rehte hain since I was 05 days old. Maire parents cousins the and jaise purani families main hota hai k bas family main kerdi shadi, even though both were very different in personality with each other, khair maire baba ne decide kia k woh nahin rehna chahte sath, my mother to make this marriage work but my father said either follow my rules or end this. Fast forward, his terms were beti nahin parhegi but my mother refused that I cannot let this happen and she took a stand for me. My father is happily married with his secind wife and have 04 kids now. I meet him sometimes when I visit the village and his family and my half siblings. My stepmother treats me with love and kindness. Now, that my mother has invested her whole life on me. I want her to live the fullest now. I want her to get married as I know k maire mamu mumaniyan bohat hi achi hain but still my mother needs her own family. She never got praised from her spouse in that marriage which we all desire. Now, I can clearly see that she yearns that but never admits. She is a graceful lady. She believes log kya kahenge but In future I dont want anyone to say to her k hm tumhara bohat khayal kerte hain as a ehsan (which obviously no one is goinf to say but nobat hi na aye) apna ghar ho meri amma ka or aik acha partner. I am convincing her from many years but she laughs and says kuch bhi bolti ho. I am looking for phd abroad now and she says main manage kerloongi apna, kehti hian pehle tumhari hojaye phir main apna sochungi! sabki timeline same to nahin hain. I need guidance of seniors or people my age who have been through it. Amma ko log dekhte hain or puchte b hain but again same answer. She always gets compliments about her grace and personality. I love her the most and I want her to enjoy her life unconditionally. Mujhe parha likha chucki hain woh. Its her time! I am looking forward how to proceed or guidance. this time, I am 100% serious to procedd about her and leave the final decision on Allah
- @midnight_static
#familyissues #BrotherSister #PropertyDisputes #loan #Repayment #affair As salamalakum, M Doston meri zandagi last Friday se badal gai hai sukoon nahi khana peena kuch maan nai lagra mujha ko aise baat mallom hua jis suna kar mera pairon se zameen nikla gai meri ek bhen shadi hogai 4 bache hai bhen ko mera ka husband Saudi mein job karte tho baat yaha ka meri bhen ka affair hai aur meri bhen humesh kuch na kuch bolo kar paise mangati rathi hai ... Humar ghar sale kare abbu ka tabiyat kharab thi karza hogay abbu ka intaql hogay ghar sale kardiya sub ka karza adda kariye ab bhen hissa hono ghar bolo kar zidd kar ka 3 lakh liye phir recent liye 40k liye 2 din mein return deti meri gold rahan centre mein bolo kar min 2 din mein deti bolne se 2 din bole 10 din hogay paise return nai diya ... Call lift nai kare kuch response nai kari mein ghar jaka mallom kara gussa kara 2 slap maara tho saach samna aaya Jo ladka ka satha affair tha .. vooh ladka meri bhen ka pass 5 lakah liye bhen ka gold bhi Rehan centre mein rakha 40k bhi liye mujha ko mallom hua tho ladka ko call Kara 8 din mein 40k deto bolra hai ... ab gold aur 5 lakh kaise niklana samjha nai aara ... mujha ko itna gussa khasam khuda ki samjha nai aara bar bar iska acha sabaq sikhana bolke dimag mein aara hai... Meri bhen ko aur iss ko dono ko xxxxx xxxx xxxxx dena maan kar raha hai... bas Mera beta ka sooch kar chup hoon magar neendi nai thik se 8 din se... mujha ko new gadi lana hai bahoot preshano hori Agar paise nai mile tho kya karna chahiye please koi achi advice do 😔😔😔